The Secure Attachment Course:

Break Free From The Subconscious Patterns Holding You Back

"WOW I took the test and it's spot on. It's like this test understands me, and I've felt misunderstood for a long time." Brenda

Relationships are not meant to be this hard. Maybe it's not cause he won't listen, or she wants to control you, but because of how our worst fears from childhood are playing out subconciously.

Ready to finally not only understand why your partner keeps doing (or not doing) what he/she does, but why you keep ending up in relationships like this - then look no further. I've combined ten years of studying relationship patterns into this attachment course!


Sign up now, and start implementing the changes and wake up happy again right away.

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You’re not imagining it, and no—you’re not crazy. That moment of clarity, that “aha!” feeling— I could tell you what I saw, in one minute quiz, because what I saw wasn't your personality - but your programming! The good news is, it doesn't need to stay that way!

This course can change your life.

If you haven't done the quiz - feel free to do it now. It's just two minutes:

Free Quiz
What's Your Relationship Personality Type?

I am soo happy that you are here! Understanding ourselves and our partners is a step closer to that loving relationship we crave, and perhaps once had. You deserve to be happy in love, and it's not reserved for the lucky few or fairytales.


That’s where Unstuck: Break Free From Relationship Patterns Holding You Back comes in.


This course isn’t just about recognizing the patterns; it’s about learning how to break free from them.

Whether you’ve realized you’re on the over-giving end, with little in return; or the type that pulls away from emotions (to protect yourself); or feeling emotionally stuck in a tug of war, this course will show you how to stop repeating the same painful cycles and start building the deep, meaningful connections you’ve always wanted.


You, and probably your partner too, are not broken—just stuck in a relationship pattern you never signed up for. The good news? You don’t need to stay there! Change is just a click away..

I'm in - let's do this!

Finally understand why relationships can feel so dang hard!


You’re not alone. We’ve all had moments where we wonder why we end up in the same frustrating patterns—over and over. It’s like a never-ending emotional merry-go-round, except no one’s having fun. (I get it—been there!)


But here’s the thing: You’re not broken, and neither is your relationship. You’re just operating from old patterns and wounds you didn’t even know were there. That’s where this quiz course, Unstuck, comes in.


And the best news is - it doesn’t have to stay this way. Things can start changing TODAY already!!

You no longer need to...

Cross your fingers and hope for better luck, or your partner to FINALLY wake up and know how to just do better..

Or feel defeated, and give up on love and decide you're just better off living life on your own..

Introducing Unstuck: Freedom to Love Authentically

Your personalized guide to understanding why you relate the way you do, and how to stop repeating the patterns that keep holding you back.

This course will help you understand the roots of your relationship challenges, whether you're always giving too much, pulling away, or feeling stuck in emotional chaos. With this deeper understanding, you’ll learn the tools to start creating real, lasting change in your relationships.

Raise your hand if you…


Feel like you're always doing the most in your relationships—always giving, always fixing—and yet, it never feels like enough? You want to feel safe and connected, but it feels like you're the only one holding everything together.


Or maybe,
You find yourself pulling away when things get emotionally intense? It doesn't make sense why your partner needs to get so emotional! It's easy - you take a moment, you reflect on it, you process it, and then you move on. Why can't it be easier like it was when you first dated?!


Or perhaps,
You are the personality type that feels caught in a cycle of wanting closeness but also being afraid of it? Sometimes you push people away, sometimes you pull them closer, but it always feels like you're trapped in emotional chaos. You might even feel scared that something in you is 'too broken' to ever really feel safe or loved. But you do know you're really tired.


What you’re experiencing isn’t your fault.


The real issue is how past relationships have shaped the way you respond in relationships.


  • For The Anxious Attached, it’s the fear that if you’re not doing, you’ll lose the love you need.
  • For The Avoidant Attached, it’s the fear of losing yourself.
  • For The Disorganized Attached, it’s the deep pain of feeling unsafe in both closeness and given space.


But the truth is, it doesn’t have to be this way. It isn't "just who you are" unless you want it to be! Change is a click away.


Imagine if…


  • You could confidently ask for what you need without holding back because of the fear of rejection or it (you) being too much.
  • You could enjoy closeness without feeling suffocated by emotions, or needing to pull away.
  • You could feel calm and secure in your relationships, knowing you're worthy of love, without fearing the chaos of emotions.

Say goodbye to the constant anxiety, the need to always give or pull away, the chaos of never feeling truly secure—and say hello to a new way of relating where you can feel calm, connected, and confident in your relationships.

Here’s what people are saying about the Relationship Personality Quiz:


"Wow! I took the test and it's spot on. It's like this test understands me, and I've felt misunderstood for a very long time." - Brenda

"Mine was spot on! The tip that came up is something I am working on, so it was great confirmation for me!" - Lindsay

"That is breathtakingly accurate! It gave me such great insight!" - Emma


The quiz has been around for some time, but the course is the newest addition, built with YOU in mind. It might not be your fault, and as a kid its what was, but as the adult you get to choose how you are in love. This course is your guide to finding yourself again, and loving from there not fear and the prison of our past.

Opening offer: Only $37
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Inside the Relationship Personality Quiz Course, you will find:


A deeper understanding of who you are bringing to the relationship.

So you can finally stop wondering, "Why do I keep ending up in the same painful situations?" and start seeing with crystal clarity why you react the way you do in relationships. This isn’t about blaming yourself—it’s about understanding how your mind and heart have been wired from past experiences, so you can stop being triggered by the same old patterns and finally feel like you’re in control of your emotional world.

Step-by-step insights into the strengths and challenges of your (and your partners) personality.

So you can recognize and embrace your deepest relationship strengths, while gently healing the wounds that keep sabotaging your connections. Imagine no longer feeling trapped in a cycle of over-giving, shutting down, or constantly second-guessing yourself. This module gives you the insight and tools to not only understand your challenges but to face them with confidence, knowing you have the power to create change.

Practical tools & actions to start implementing today already!

So you can finally move from knowing what’s wrong to taking real steps to change it. You’ll be equipped with practical, bite-sized actions you can apply immediately to start building healthier, more fulfilling relationships. No more feeling stuck in endless self-help loops—these are the exact steps you need to feel calmer, more confident, and truly connected to yourself and your loved ones.

Self-regulation techniques and practices for those heated or anxious moments.

So you can stop feeling like your emotions are running the show. Whether you’re the one who’s always in overdrive trying to fix everything, or you find yourself shutting down when things get too intense, these simple yet powerful practices will help you calm your nervous system, manage overwhelming emotions, and finally feel grounded and safe—even in the moments that used to trigger you the most.

Bonuses:

When you join the Relationship Personality Quiz Course, you’ll also receive:

  • Transformational Workbook

This is not about passive learning, but embodying what you learn and having practical exercises to use the insights in real life situations so that you can see the results in your marriage, today already!

  • Validation Cheat Sheet - Perfect for knowing how to communicate in a way that helps you feel heard and understood.


  • Defensiveness Checklist – to help you navigate tricky conversations with ease.


  • Journal Prompts for Healing – to guide your journey of self-discovery and emotional healing.


  • Resentment Buster - A guided visualization to help put down the resentment and see what you need to be focused on.
  • Reparenting scripts – scripts to help you reconnect with parts of you from childhood that are stuck there, trying to protect you.

Now, you might be thinking “How is this course different?”

This course doesn’t just offer surface-level advice. It goes deep—into your attachment wounds, your nervous system responses, and the root causes of your relationship challenges. It’s designed to not only give you clarity but also the tools to heal and transform.

So, are you ready to finally break free from unhealthy relationship patterns? It’s time to understand your relationship personality and start building the connections you’ve always longed for.

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Hi, I’m Tehilla, a relationship and identity coach who has helped women all over the world transform their relationships by healing their attachment wounds and reprogramming their nervous systems. After years of research and personal experience, I created the Relationship Personality Quiz Course to give women like you the tools they need to feel confident, calm, and empowered in all their relationships.


With over 10 years in private practice as a licensed counselor, and a thriving fully booked practice, I needed to get what I know out there - for you and your children.


Happily ever after does not only belong to fairytales or the lucky few.

This course is for you if:


  • You feel like you’re always giving too much and still not getting what you need.
  • You feel overwhelmed when people want to get emotionally close to you.
  • You feel stuck in a push-pull cycle of wanting closeness but fearing it at the same time.


By the end of this program, you will:


  • Have a deep understanding of your relationship personality and why you relate the way you do.
  • Learn how to manage your emotions and stop feeling overwhelmed by them.
  • Gain confidence in communicating your needs and setting boundaries without fear of rejection or losing yourself.
  • Develop the ability to create secure, loving connections without losing your sense of self.


Let’s be honest—those frustrating relationship patterns aren't going anywhere unless you take the first step. The question is, how long do you want to wait to finally feel that peace and connection you deserve?

I'm in - let's do this!
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Does my partner need to do this with me for it to work?

Your partner doesn't even need to know you signed up for this course (but they may suspect something, in a good way, when they notice your boost in confidence and new found skills).


We are often so overwhelmed with our partners actions (or inaction) that it can feel what would working on me help?!" But like Esther Perel says (paraphrasing here): "It might take two to create a pattern, but only one needs to step out of it to stop the cycle."
I see people making big changes in their relationship every day, even when their partner isn't on board.

Is this course only for people in relationships?

No! Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this course will help you understand your relationship patterns and improve the way you relate to yourself and others.

Can I learn about my partner in this course?

You will usually pretty quickly beable to recognize your partner in the desciptors of each personality type - and then be able to not only understand yourself better but him / her too! Understanding their fears, needs, and challenges gives you each deep insights and support to create safe relationships.

Do we learn all the personality types or just our own specific type?

All the personality types are addressed here.

The personality types are broken down into four main types, with three of them having three additional subtype descriptors.

I don't know my quiz results - where can I do it?

If you've done the quiz but can't remember your "type" please feel free to email me: info@thecouplesconnection.com. Be sure to give me your name / email you used to do the quiz so I can trace your results.

Otherwise you can do the quiz here, just click this link. https://quiz.typeform.com/to/ssFsywCb

What if I am already familiar with Attachment Theory?

Attachment theory is an amazing way to understand how our childhood impacts our adult relationships. I have been using it in private practice for over a decade and still find it useful to revert back to. Because of the profound impact it has on our automatic behaviors and expectations in relationship, I have created scripts and step by step awarenesses for you to be able to use to make breaking the pattern even more tangible.

Is there a money back guarantee?

If, for any reason, you're unhappy with the course, you can, within 24 hours, get a full money back guarantee. Due to the extensive training and effort gone into creating this course, I will not offer money back for any reason after the 24 hours have passed.

You are very welcome to e-mail me ANY suggestions for the course, I always love hearing from you. info@thecouplesconnection.com

How do I know you're legit?

There are soo many half-assed courses, and scammers out there. I totally respect your skepticism. Please feel free to check out my website, youtube channel, or social media to see for yourself.

Website: www.thecouplesconnection.com

e-Mail: info@thecouplesconnection.com

Socials: @tehillanicole

Opening offer: Only $37
Start transforming your relationship right now!