Love works.
It’s just hard to feel it when your nervous system is still bracing for disappointment.

Why He Pulls Away: How Attachment Styles Sabotage Love

A Masterclass (and more)

Only $37 (R500) - Start The Transformation In Minutes

You don't need to be the same or even want the same things to build a love that works. You just need to understand the fears beneath your patterns - and how to build safety again.

What you get inside:

  • The Attachment Masterclass: Finally really understand why you pull, (s)he pulls away, and those Groundhog Day fights keep happening - even if you're both trying (or not). (My clients nod the whole way through it. Prepare for A-Ha after A-HA)!

  • Your Full Relationship Personality Type Quiz feedback. The quiz was powerful, but this feedback reveals the why behind your coping - so you can lead yourself to the happy you desire.

  • Step-by-step healing strategies for Attachment styles. Practical support for anxious, avoidant or disorganized patterns - so you don't just learn about it but shift it.

  • The Secure Love Blueprint: How love looked when you were in love, and where we aim for (more often).

  • A Tool Vault (aka Your Relationship Lifeline), including:

    • Reparenting Scripts that rewire your self-talk (and creates deep change);

    • How to inspire him so he leans in, not out;

    • Validation cheat sheets;

    • Scripts for those moments when you're speaking two different languages (not love languages, but those fear based ones).

Untangled: Loosen The Hold of Old Patterns To Thrive In Love

You're so much closer than you realize. I'm rooting for you!

Why He Pulls Away: Attachments Made Simple

$37

package

  • Short, powerful videos that cut straight to the root—so you’re not stuck in theory, you’re shifting in real-time.

  • A printable workbook that brings the transformation into your hands—because insights are good, but integration is better.

  • Understand yourself and your partner in a way that makes love finally make sense—with tools you can use today.

  • Backed by 10+ years of experience helping individuals and couples untangle painful patterns and rebuild real intimacy.

  • Three years of access—because healing happens in layers, and you deserve to revisit this whenever you need.

  • Practical, soul-deep transformation—at your own pace, right from your phone.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is there a money back guarantee?

If you're not entirely satisfied with this course, you can request a full refund within 24 hours. I will give you the refund no questions asked.
But due to the extensive effort that's gone into creating this course, I won't be offering refunds for any requests 24 hours after purchase.

Is it just about attachment theory?

While it is predominantly based on attachment theory (and going into attachment theory like no other course I've seen), it does bring additional elements and psychological principles of relationships into the training.
It also brings attachment theory and it's affects on relationships with practical tools for couples to implement in too.

What’s different about this course?

Get your hands on practical tools, like understanding your partners attachments and cheat sheets into how he / she can support you in your triggers. As well as cheat sheets like How not to validate (and how to validate); A defensiveness Checklist and more.

What if my partner isn’t interested in doing this course?

You can still do this course and enjoy the insights and practical steps to help you and your partner break the patterns that keep unconsciously sabotaging your relationship.

Can I take this even if I’m a therapist too?

I would love you to. The more people know about these tools that can help couples transform their marriages, the more kids have healthy role models, the less intergenerational trauma to be passed down.

Where can I find out more about your work or work with you?

You can follow me on social media (@tehillanicole); or find me at www.thecouplesconnection.com
E-Mail me at info@thecouplesconnection.com

What if I’m single? Can I still do the course?

Totally! It will not only help you understand your past relationships but why you seem to be attracting the same type of person.
"Tehilla loved this...hope you are promoting it everywhere - I totally used it over the last couple of days to clarify my choice of dates ... and as you know, it was a big success!" Lisa (Quiz)

World Class Training

Trained under some of the top names in the field of couples therapy, like Gottman's; Esther Perel; Diane Poole Heller; Terry Real, etc Tehilla is committed to providing expertise that can change your life.

Immediate Access

You don't need to wait for an opening with a therapist, you get immediate access to insights and exercises that can improve your marriage immediately!

Including resources on how to understand your partners injuries and needs to rebuild harmony.

Transformation at your fingertips

You don't need to do this with your partner, you can do it on your own. Esther Perel says that it takes two to create a pattern, but only one needs to step out of it to break it.

If you have not yet done my free quiz (or can't recall your results), feel free to quickly do it now. It just takes 2 minutes and you will get deep insights into your relationship patterns.


Click here
FREE Relationship Quiz

About Tehilla

Tehilla Luttig is a former play-therapist turned global relationship coach who discovered that healing parents relationships with themselves, each other, and their past - creates the deepest, most lasting impact on families. Now, she helps individuals and couples reclaim their joy in love, life, and relationships—because happy parents create thriving families.

Drawing from a rich, psychology-based toolbox (as a licensed counselor) that blends neuroscience, somatics, faith, and relational EQ, she guides clients to release old patterns, rebuild self-trust, and transform their relationships from strained to soulful.

As a mom, wife, writer, speaker, licensed counselor, and coach, Tehilla is passionate about helping you rewrite your love story—where joy, intimacy, and emotional freedom are your new normal.

Disclaimer: The information shared in ALL her courses are for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy.

For personalized guidance, consult a licensed therapist or counselor, or see if you can schedule a consult with her directly.

Happily ever after doesn't only belong to fairytales or lucky few. With the right support, you can have it too.


Our kids deserve it.

Contact

Western Cape, South Africa

info@thecouplesconnection.com

www.thecouplesconnection.com

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