• Love is our natural state - everything else is a coping strategy or believed lie.

I am very impressed with Tehilla's comprehensive knowledge on the subject of

couple's work. She has packed this course in a well-thought-out structure which

resulted in a maximum learning experience. Her presentations are warm, empathic

and enthusiastic and she made it very comfortable for the participants to be at ease and to participate. Thank you so much for a well-worth training".

D.H. Counseling Psychologist

I enjoyed the course tremendously and have great respect for Tehilla's wisdom, insights, research and the compassion with which she helps us to come to grips with many challenges that we as couples are grappling with on a daily basis. Thank you - well worth it!

CG. Clinical Psychologist

The Ultimate Relationship Toolbox:

Tools to build a relationship that lasts and is secured with strength, connection, and joy.

The perfect solution to soothe the resentment and repair the frustration can be right here at your fingertips! And you don't have to wait another minute to access it.

10 Years of private practice clinical experience (as a licensed couples counselor) is wrapped into this course so that you can get the best tools I have helped thousands of people with, to build the relationship you've been craving (and this course is at a fraction of the price).

What would it feel like to feel seen, heard and on the same page with your partner again? Close your eyes and feel it for a moment. It's closer than you possibly realize.

Are you tired of constantly struggling with the same challenges in your marriage? Do you long for a deeper connection and understanding with your partner? Look no further, because The Ultimate Toolbox is precisely designed to help you address those pain points and ignite the passion and intimacy you desire in your marriage.

So many people start off with deep exciting love, feeling invincible.. but over time (and often with the introduction of kids) it fades. There is an almost tangible distance that creeps in and the connection gets replaced with protection. We still love our partners but it feels like we speak different languages. Many times the frustration, loneliness, controlling behavior or lack of connection, bickering, and fights break down the respect, trust, and even liking of each other.

Maybe, we hope, if we can just learn how to say things better we will finally be able to get through to each other...

But unfortunately, it's not that straightforward (otherwise the many books you've possibly tried would have worked). We ALL have unique filters (lenses) through which we see the world. And these filters have a big impact on the way we interpret stress, events, and each other. And we have unique childhood injuries that impact how safe we feel with love, with people, and with ourselves. This too has a big impact on our rationalizing and reactions in relationships.

Because of this, I created a course that goes beyond communication tools! It is packed with amazing communication tools - but also much more. It dives into healthy habits we need to develop to show up as our best selves for each other. You will uncover the toxic patterns and habits that filter our perceptions and block our conversations. There are tools to increase intimacy and get your partner to talk more. We look at how to manage our conflict and learn how to address those difficult conversations more peacefully and constructively. We explore many blocks and beliefs and take them further in the special journal and create deeper transformations.

And much much more.

Did you know?

Our relationship arguments are RARELY about the situation at hand but a re-awakening of the pain from unmet needs from the past.

Even the dishes could be about feeling unappreciated and unsupported which possibly stems from previous experiences. This doesn't mean your partner doesn't need to support you or that because it's the past, it can't be helped now. But when we know what we're actually fighting for - we get to really resolve things and not just get to a stalemate or feeling like we 'won' without feeling better understood.

Imagine waking up every morning to a deep sense of love, trust, and companionship. Picture a future where you and your partner communicate effortlessly, understanding each other's needs and desires and feelings supported and seen. Envision a love that grows stronger with each passing day, resilient in the face of challenges.

8 Modules with profound insights and exercises that can change your life.

Get Immediate Access to All Videos, Worksheets, Private FB group & Bonuses!

  • Three Phases of Love: Understand the cycle of love and how to recreate the in-love phase.
  • Toxic Patterns & Habits: Understanding these patterns and habits can break many unconscious cycles and deepen empathy with each other. Including attachment wounds; common words that hurt badly; conflict avoiders and straight shooters' conflict styles; the four predictors of divorce, and more!
  • Understanding Men - Understanding Women: Master the art of speaking each other's language so you can feel like you're on the same page again.
  • Healthy Communication Skills: Feel confident in communication with these amazing tools. 7 Amazing tools for you to implement immediately.
  • Healthy Habits As A Partner: How to make sure you show up as your best self in the relationship. If you each take responsibility for yourselves - there will be less micromanaging and nagging. 11 Super helpful modules in this section.
  • Fights & Managing Conflict Constructively: 4 highly effective tools to rewrite your conflict including a step-by-step guide to difficult conversations and the art of apologizing effectively.
  • Intimacy & Sex: Understand each other's drives and how to build closer connections in the bedroom (or where ever you like).
  • Rewriting Your Relationship Blueprint: See the scientifically proven blueprint to building happy relationships and get a visual guide to building your relationship coat of arms. And a guide to rewriting your vows together.
  • Bonuses: On top of the 45+ lessons you also get:


  • A workbook to take the lessons deeper
  • Resentment Busting Guided Visualization
  • Bonus Recording (Parent / Adult / Child Ego States)
  • Appreciation Jar - Family Activity
  • Suggestion for Weekly Commitments
  • Books & Apps I love
  • Questions to use to get to know each other again (and avoid akward silences when on dates)

What you will learn:

  • The psychology of relationships.
  • How to break down the hidden toxic patterns with actions that build connection and unity.
  • How to rekindle that in-love feeling, no matter how many years you've been married.
  • How to create respect, empathy and love for yourself and your partner in the relationship again.
  • Practices that build greater understanding and support.
  • Skills to have more open and vulnerable conversations (even if he says he can't speak "feelings").
  • Feel safe with love again.
  • The art of proper apologies.
  • Understanding the underlying needs of men vs women so you can meet each other's needs better.
  • A step-by-step guide to navigating conflict and difficult conversations so that you both feel heard and understood (instead of angry, frustrated, and going around in circles).
  • Practices to improve the fun & intimacy in your marriage.
  • Guide to co-creating your marital vision together.
  • Learn how to show up as the best version of yourself.
  • Predictors of divorce (and how to circumvent them).
  • And more!
Did you know?

Over-protective mothers were under-protected daughters. (Author Unknown)

There is a world of psychology behind our relationships, knowing the skills and the psychology not only equips you to thrive in your relationship, but also builds your confidence and helps you heal deeper wounds.

How does it work?

With 10 years of private practice experience (and being married & a mom myself), I have dedicated this course to making sure it's got all the tools you could need to lay a solid foundation in your relationship.

Classes are short and focused

No fluff, straight to the good stuff.

Only practical and down-to-earth content

I've tried and tested everything in this course. And so have the hundreds of people I've worked with. Not to mention the clients that fly across the world to see me for 1:1 work too!

Always growing

I am passionate about families and I believe that the best way to help the family is to help the parents. As I learn new tools or remember something I think could help - I add it to the course. For free!

Private FB Group

Only for paid course members meaning that only those passionate about relationships are in the group. And I answer all your questions personally!

Some Client Feedback

“WWWOWOWWW. Mind blown! We could easily identify our ‘injury’ and we will keep this in mind going forward. How valuable to now understand why we act the way we do. THIS was AMAZING! Made me tear up! I will practice this!! Really enjoying this! Thanks!” Kat C.

I found that the course gave us much-needed structure to relationship (re)building. Full of great content to start understanding our behaviours, what drives them and ways forward. Invaluable. Would highly recommend to all who are in meaningful relationships. I am already planning who I can gift this content to.” Ricky Z.

I just wanted to say we learned SO MUCH and understand each other better now! Your course, the videos are such a great idea. The explanations were SUPER and the way you did the examples are very clear and understandable. We enjoyed it thoroughly and can really say we understand each other, and why we reacted in certain ways better and so we can now handle things in a better way.

Surene L.

Say Goodbye to Loneliness and Disconnect

It's no secret that relationships go through ups and downs, and sometimes the downs can feel overwhelming. Lack of communication, unresolved conflicts, and diminishing intimacy can all take a toll on a relationship. That's where The Ultimate Couples Toolbox comes in, providing you with the tools, guidance, and support you need to reshape your relationship into the harmonious, fulfilling partnership you've been longing for.

Here's how The Ultimate Relationship Toolboxtackles those pain points head-on and empowers couples to reclaim their happiness:

  • Effective Communication Strategies: I understand that communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. The Ultimate Relationship Toolbox equips you with proven techniques to express your thoughts, feelings, and needs effectively, fostering open and meaningful dialogue between you and your partner. Say goodbye to misunderstandings and hello to a deeper connection!
  • Conflict Resolution Techniques: Every couple encounters conflicts, but it's how you handle them that makes all the difference. With The Ultimate Relationship Toolbox, you'll gain valuable insights and practical approaches to resolving conflicts in a healthy and respectful manner. Say goodbye to endless arguments and hello to finding common ground and solutions together!
  • Reigniting Intimacy and Passion: Has the spark started to dwindle in your relationship? The Ultimate Relationship Toolbox looks to reignite intimacy and passion. Explore the power of emotional and physical connection, learning how to prioritize and nurture this essential aspect of your partnership.
  • Learning the language: In the course, you will learn the different needs of many men to women, and how to meet your needs and theirs, without the resentment of martyrdom and sacrifice without appreciation.
  • Strengthening Trust and Building a Strong Foundation: Trust forms the foundation of any successful marriage. The Relationship Ultimate Toolbox delves into rebuilding trust and creating a safe space for vulnerability and growth. By addressing past hurts, establishing healthy boundaries, and cultivating trust, you'll enjoy a solid foundation upon which you can build a resilient and lasting bond.
  • Cultivating Shared Goals and Dreams: It's essential for couples to have shared goals and dreams that they strive for together. The Ultimate Relationship Toolbox helps you uncover each other's aspirations, allowing you to align your visions for the future. By combining your passions and creating a roadmap to fulfill your dreams, you'll embark on an exciting journey that strengthens your bond and deepens your love.
  • Fostering Autonomy and Connection: There is a balancing act needed in love as intimacy requires transparency and sharing, and desire (for passion) requires a sense of the unknown and longing. Also, a relationship can only be as healthy as the individuals in it. That is why I have dedicated a large section of the course to helping you take care of yourself and show up as your best self in the relationship.

As you embark on this Course, you'll not only gain invaluable insights and practical skills but also be part of a supportive community of couples walking the same path. With engaging modules, interactive exercises, and expert guidance, you'll have everything you need to transform your marriage into an unbreakable partnership.

Don't settle for a mediocre marriage when you can have the extraordinary love you've always desired. Enroll in our Course today and embark on a journey of love, growth, and true happiness. Your beautiful, flourishing marriage awaits!

Remember, a stronger and more fulfilling relationship is just a click away.

Heal Old Wounds and Deepen Your Trust


How Long Will It Take?

Each video is short and sweet but very in time from just a few minutes to about half an hour long. You are welcome to binge-watch the videos but then I recommend each week you dedicate time to practice implementing the new lesson learned.

Do you offer refunds?

I have never needed to. I don't offer refunds off the bat but if for any reason you aren't happy and you're willing to share what about the course you weren't happy about I am happy to refund you. This must be within 7 days of purchase (unfortunately some crooks like to steal my work so can't give longer time than that).

Is there an affiliate program?

Yes! For every person who purchases this course from your affiliate link - you will get 20% of what they paid!

What makes this course different?

I don't just give you the tools but also insight into why you got where you are, what the psychology is behind our behavior, and how to heal those injuries. I also provide exercises for you to do and journal prompts and visualizations to really be able to integrate what you learn. I'm also not just someone who's had tough relationships (I've had those too), but I'm a licensed counselor with 10 years of private practice experience.

Do I have to be in a relationship to do this course?

No. I've had single people do this course and they said it helped them so much with dating and how they showed up in their relationships then!

What if my partner doesn't want to do this course?

You can do this course and implement what you learn without your partner participating. What previous people have said is that their partners get curious and start watching some of the videos with them and then join them in watching the course often. But even if that's not the case for you, you will still find a lot of value in doing this course alone.

Can I gift this course to someone?

It makes an amazing gift. Just purchase the course and put their email in as the purchaser. If you'd like, you can email us and we'll make a nice voucher card for them.

What else makes this course special?

The private FB group gives you personal access to me where I am dedicated to answering every single question posted by the members, personally.

Clients have flown in from across the globe to see me for 1:1 intensives (and pay thousands of dollars for private sessions).

Some Client Feedback

I really think this is a wonderful tool for couples to use when navigating through their relationship. The explanations were very thorough and easy to understand and relate to. The content really helped us to highlight areas that may need more work as well as highlight things that are going well (which is encouraging). I'm sure many couples will find it very useful.

Thank you!

Jodie Z.

"I am very impressed with Tehilla's comprehensive knowledge on the subject of couple's work.

Thank you so much for a well worth training".


Counseling Psychologist

I enjoyed the course tremendously and have great respect for Tehilla's wisdom, insights, research and the compassion with which she helps us to come to grips with many challenges that we as couples are grappling with on a daily basis. Thank you - well worth it!

– CG. Clinical Psychologist

Still not sure?

As a couples counselor, I completely empathize with your concerns and commend you for considering a relationship course to help navigate challenges and strengthen your bond. I also understand how valuable and important it is to invest in your relationship.

First and foremost, let me assure you that a relationship course can be a great tool for personal growth and enhancing your connection as a couple. It is designed to provide guidance, insights, and proven strategies that can help you overcome obstacles and build a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.

Here are a few reasons why investing in a relationship course can be beneficial:

  • Comprehensive content: The Ultimate Relationship Toolbox covers a wide range of topics, such as effective communication, conflict resolution, intimacy, and building trust. It can provide you with a solid foundation and equip you with practical tools to navigate common challenges.
  • Expert guidance: I am an experienced licensed couples counselor, with ten years in private practice, and well versed in the field of relationships. My knowledge and expertise can offer you valuable insights and perspectives that you might not have considered before.
  • Self-paced learning: One of the advantages of relationship courses is that you can learn at your own pace. This allows you to delve deeper into certain topics and revisit material whenever you need to. The flexibility ensures that you can work on your relationship when it's most convenient for you - or both of you.
  • Privacy and confidentiality: The course can be completed in the privacy of your own home. This can alleviate any concerns about sharing personal details or feeling uncomfortable discussing sensitive issues in a public setting.
  • Cost-effective alternative: Investing in a relationship course is often more affordable than regular therapy sessions. It offers you the opportunity to benefit from expert guidance without breaking the bank. This course is a fraction of the price of working with me 1:1 (and I don't hold back in the course - I WANT you to have the best tools in my toolbox)!
  • Private Community: Join a private community of like-minded couples on a journey like yours if you wish (on FB). Here I answer questions personally that you may have on the course or from home!

However, I understand that investing in a relationship course is a decision that requires careful consideration. Here are a few suggestions that might address your concerns:

  • Take the time to explore the course content, and understand the approach I take. Check that it aligns with your values, needs, and desired outcomes. Feel free to check out my website to learn more about me and build your confidence in my methods: www.thecouplesconnection.com
  • Set realistic expectations: A relationship course is a valuable resource, but it's important to remember that it is not a substitute for professional therapy or counseling. If you're dealing with deep-seated issues or significant challenges, it's always beneficial to seek additional help from a licensed therapist, such as myself, or someone in your area. Please be sure to check that they too have lots of experience working with couples.

As Benjamin Franklin put it, "An investment in knowledge pays the greatest dividends".

Esther Perel:

It takes two people to create a pattern, but one person to break it.

This course was selling for $997 in 2022 and people loved it! You can get it now for $555. And you have personalized support from me in the private Facebook community. I answer every question there myself! And make videos to add to the course regularly. AND I will be going live in the group so you can ask questions directly, more often.

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Contact and Billing Information

If you don't have PayPal, and you would prefer to do I direct payment, contact me for my bank details to make a direct deposit. And once the payment is reflected, we will manually add you to the course.

And anyone who really really wants the course but can't afford this rate, let me know and lets see what discount I can give.


Unfortunately, Stripe isn't available to South Africans for easier payment processing. For now.

Here's what's included:

  • Instant Access to over 50 life-changing videos
  • Private FB Group with my personal support
  • Powerful visualizations
  • PDFs, journal prompts, and a deeply transformational workbook.

Billing details:

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Tehilla Luttig

Stop waiting for them to change or things to get better, it's time for you two to get the tools and thrive.

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