You remember Lucy’s booth in Peanuts? The little stand where you could walk up, pay your nickel, and get advice? That’s this. Except I bring 15 years of clinical expertise, thousands of hours in the room with real people in real relationships, and a genuine passion for helping people thrive in the connections they were made for.

You walk up to the booth. You ask your question. I answer.

It happens on Telegram, which means we don’t exchange personal numbers, and nobody has to schedule a Zoom call or sit in a waiting room. It’s completely private. Just you, your question, and fifteen years of clinical expertise on the other side of the screen.

It’s not therapy. It’s not a three-hour coaching session. It’s direct, focused, expert insight — on the one thing that’s been living rent-free in your head.

Simple. Private. Powerful.

Because 15 years of clinical training, Gottman Level 2 certification, attachment work, nervous system therapy, and thousands of hours in the room with real couples and families means I don’t just hear what you’re saying — I hear what’s underneath it. I work fast, I go deep, and I don’t give you generic answers. I give you yours.

Yes. That’s exactly me. And I have nothing against AI - but I know what it does. It tells you what it thinks you want to hear. It doesn’t always pick up on relational patterns. It doesn’t have the psychological depth to see what’s actually happening underneath what you’re describing.

I do.

You’re getting a real human clinician and coach who has sat with thousands of real people in real relationships.

Quick doesn’t mean shallow. It means I work fast because I know what I’m looking for. You don’t need months of therapy to get clarity on one thing. You just need the right person on it for a day.

Telegram is like WhatsApp - you can send text and voice notes back and forth - except we don't need to exchange telephone numbers. After purchase, you’ll receive a private link to a chat directly with me. You send your question, I respond with follow-up questions, voice notes, and insight. You don’t need to be online at the same time as me. It works around your life.

I will respond as soon as I can - there may be gaps depending on where we each are in the world. But the 24-hour window is specifically designed to give me time to ask you the right questions, understand the full context of what you’re bringing, and give you the depth your situation actually deserves. Generally the USA side of the world can expect answers / my questions / feedback their mornings. And Australia side of the world can expect it their afternoons / evenings. And Europe - we have a similar time zone so should be regular daytime hours.

Absolutely. Everything you share with me stays with me - I don’t share your information or your story with anyone, full stop.

That said, I want to be transparent: Telegram as a platform is not under my control. I can’t guarantee their data security. You’re sharing at your own discretion, and I’d never take that lightly.

If you have any questions or concerns - please find me on social media (@tehillanicole) or email me: hello@therelationshipfactor.com

This is the right fit if you have one specific situation you want a trained expert eye on.

It’s not the right fit if you’re in active crisis, experiencing abuse or danger, or need ongoing clinical support. One question won’t fix a crisis - and I’d never want you to think it could. If that’s where you are, please reach out to a licensed therapist or crisis line directly.